My child is intense and I tried everything but nothing is working and I don't know what to do...

From Meltdown to Connection

Discover the 2 main triggers and 2 switches to transform meltdowns into moments of connection

Community and support for parents of

 "emotionally intense" kids

I'll be there for you 

So you can be there for your child

" You're not failing at parenting

You just don't have the right tools for YOUR child

It 's very different! "

My child is intense and I tried everything...

You tried everything that you "should be doing" but it's just not working and nobody else gets it?

It's even putting fuel on the fire more often than not when you try to follow most "general parenting advices"?

It feels really lonely sometimes?

Yeah...what I would love is to...

  • Understand what’s going on with my child
  • Help my child manage their emotions and calm down
  • Stay (mostly) calm even when my child is not 
  • Feel like I'm a good parent and that I'm doing the right thing for my child even when it's not going well

To be able to enjoy my life and kids, not always being afraid of the next outburst

Great, because that's what I want to help you accomplish, by

  • helping you to see through everything you already know
  • share my experience, tips and tricks
  • support you to choose what works for YOU and YOUR child
  • and put aside what doesn't, without guilt.

By creating a safe and judgment-free space where you can really feel accepted and understood, even if you've never experienced that before, and have the support to move forward in a confident way.

Ok but how?

There's 3 essentials to parent emotionally intense kids 

And once I know what to do, how do I actually do it?

Develop (or double down on) the 6 strengths that are essential for parenting emotionally Intense kids

Creativity

You find out of the box and often ideas to jazz things up with your child and that helps increase collaboration, you're not boxed in by what you "should be doing" too much if it works it works!

Consistency

You are dependable and setup clear routines and boundaries, your child knows what to expect and that support their collaboration. 

Sensitivity

You are in tune with your child and understand them well, tou can connect with them even when things are hard.

Peacefulness

You stay calm and grounded even when your child is not, you don't loose your temper easily. That helps to not escalate things with your child. 

Advocacy

You're always there to ask for accommodations for your child and give them yourself, your not afraid to be speak up even when it goes against what others think. 

Confidence

You feel secure in most of your decisions and actions for your child and don't let outside judgment influence you easily in your actions. 

  • Consistency
  • Sensitivity
  • Creativity
  • Peacefulness
  • Advocacy
  • Confidence

So that you can use a NEEDS based approach to parenting your emotionally intense child

An approach that's tailored to YOUR child and family, no matter what everyone else is telling you to do

Venn diagram illustrating the Needs Based Parenting approche. 2 circles intersecting, one with the words «Kids needs answered« and one with the words «parents needs answered» and in the middle «connection and confidence»

Ok, but who are you? 

Why should I trust you?

Hi, I'm Anouk Brière-Godbout! 👋

I support parents of "emotionally intense kids" for whom nothing in the “general parenting advice” seems to work.

I have a Master's degree in Social Work,

I've been supporting parents for more than 16 years 

and I've been the mom of 3 (wonderful) emotionally intense kids for just as long.

I now have the chance to work with you, parents of emotionally intense kids, those who are great, sweet, intelligent, curious kids (most of the times) but who also feel everything deeply and react explosively

I am sure you already know everything there is to know about parenting and raising kids and want the best for your children... and for you! Things are just not working and nobody really gets you (or even believes you!)

My goal is to support you to understand your child's needsrecognize your strengths and use them, clean up all the information and social pressure and refocus on yourselves and your children to make your family decisions

because you are the only real expert of your child! 

“I really enjoyed the call with Anouk. We were chatting, laughing, exchanging experiences… I love how she can create a joyful, warm and safe space to interact. It felt like a coffee date with a friend!
She was very attentive and understanding (...). Thanks a lot for listening and sharing your experience with me, Anouk.”

-Y.N.

Sounds good, how can you help me?

Here's a few ways I can support you

For all my other resources, free and paid

 check out this page

"I had a one hour private session with Anouk and it was fantastic!

Anouk has a great mixture of being approachable, down-to-earth and professional. She is very intuitive and knowledgeable and had great practical tips for me to tackle the challenges I am experiencing with my 2 children.

I would highly recommend a session with Anouk. She had insight which I had not ever even contemplated myself.

Thanks so much Anouk!"

-C.P.

"It gives you permission to let go of the idea of perfection and return to the reason many of us started this process; to authentically document our families and our lives."

-D.C.

A few places you can also hear, see or read me...

Listen to all the podcasts I've been invited on over here

Don't forget your free resource:

Discover the 2 main triggers and switches to transform meltdowns into moments of connection

  • Identify the 2 most common triggers behind your child's meltdowns.
  • Discover 2 key parenting switches to reduce meltdowns and conflicts.
  • Understand why these triggers lead to emotional outbursts.
  • Strengthen your bond with your child by switching the way you react
  • Learn how to create a calmer and more peaceful atmosphere at home.
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